Aging: Does it Have Any Benefits?




Everything I write comes from experience. In 1999 John Wiley and Sons published my book about aging. My research included articles from the Medline database, medical newsletters, books on the topic, and a random survey of members of my local senior center.


The survey was called “How Do You Feel About Aging?” There were five questions on the form: 1. What are some good things about aging? 2. What are some bad things about aging? 3. What activities do you enjoy? 4. Occupation? 5. Age? (an optional question).



Only 40 people comleted the form. “Why aren’t more members filling out the survey?” I asked a secretary.


“They don’t want to think about aging,” she replied,

Menopause: What It Is and Ways to Manage It
...of culture. There has been great interest lately in the fact that Asian women typically do not engage in hormone replacement therapy or consume dairy products and yet have virtually no osteoporosis as they age and progress through menopause. 1) ...
“and they sure don’t like to fill out forms!” Though I wished for more responses, I was grateful for the ones I received, and used them in my book. To get more responses I surveyed members of a club.


One member’s response was especially touching. Not long after her husband died she decided, primarily for safety reasons, to move out of her home and into a retirement community. The sorrow of her husband’s death didn’t diminish her enthusiasm for life. She participated in activities, remained active in her church, and was a community volunteer. On the survey form she wrote about the wonder of life and cherishing each day.


Another club member refused to

Cardio Fitness
...just an example to show you how you can vary your workouts. Remember to keep them fun and change them up weekly so that your body never gets used to a certain workout, and you don't get bored! Tyler King ...
complete the survey. “I can’t think of anything good about aging,” she explained.


“Surely you can think of something,” I replied.


“Nothing,” she answered.


“Not one thing?” I asked hopefully.


“Nothing,” she said firmly.


When I was writing the aging book my mother lived in a local assisted living community. She had probable Alzheimer’s disease and I saw her often. One day, as I was entering the building, I spotted the director. We talked for a few minutes and then I asked her question. “Can you tell me,” I began cautiously, “why so many residents seem to be angry?”


“They’re angry because they’re old,” she relied.


“Oh,” I replied, at a loss for words. Since

Sprint for a Sports Physical Therapy Career
...making more people fit! Milos Pesic is a successful webmaster and owner of popular and comprehensive Physical Therapy information site. For more articles and resources on Physical Therapy related topics, Physical Therapy exercises and much more visit his site at: ...
we had that conversation I’ve thought of the director’s reply many times.
I’m eight years older now, wear glasses, and two hearing aids. Though I’m a big “creaky” when I get up in the morning, within an hour I’m running at top speed. And as the saying goes, I’m determined to “have a good day.”


I have twin grandchildren, one boy and one girl, and they are in Middle School. Early on, my grandchildren decided to call me “Grandma,” not “Nana,” or “Nona,” or anything cutesy. Becoming a grandma has made me a better person. I’m a more reflective person as well, and focus on the positives of aging.


Because of my age:


1. Each day I

Warning: Lack of Exercise Is Detrimental To Your Health
...promoting the health and fitness truth. He also is the author of a popularebook called Home Gym Shopping Secrets. Get The Wellness WORD "Multimedia" Newsletter delivered every other week for NO CHARGE to your inbox, and find out what the ...
awaken with gratefulness and joy


2. I have new sense of purpose


3. Family continues to be the most important thing in my life


4. I know who I am and what I do


5. I understand my talents and shortcomings


6. Self-care is part of every day


7. Silly excuses and falsehoods don’t work with me


8. I can laugh - really laugh - at myself


9. Laughter is a vital part of every day


10. It’s easy to ignore speeders who zig-zag and pass me
because we will get to the red light at the same time


11. My calendar is filled with volunteer projects


12. I’m willing to take credit for what I do


13. When asked, I

Tips To Beat Depression-Coping With The Beast
...health problem that affects the total person. If you need help, why not look at the site below it may well be the answer for you. Robert Locke is an Internet Marketer specializing in Health, Wellness and Fitness.Tips For Beating ...
give advice to my grown children


14. Admitting mistakes is easier and I move on quickly


15. Tears come to my eyes when a cardinal lands on a snowy
branch


16. I try to do the right thing


17. The wonder and mystery of the heavens fill me with awe


18. I understand the miracle of life


No matter how old you are, I hope you will look for the positives of aging. File them away in your mind and think of them from time to time. For the day may come when a child looks at you, hugs you, and calls you grandma or grandpa. What a blessing.


Copyright 2005 by Harriet Hodgson. To learn more

Health Insurance Covering Women s Interest
...about proper health insurance. Although being a woman doesn t necessarily mean you ll suffer serious health conditions, having health insurance does mean you ll be covered. [http://www.myquoteguide.com/Car-Tips.shtml]Purchase Affordable Auto Insurance Fast [http://www.ezquoteguide.com/home/]Michigan Home Owner Insurance [http://www.ezquoteguide.com/car/]Auto Insurance Company #cat#Women ...
about her work go to http://www.harriethodgson.com


Harriet Hodgson has been a nonfiction writer fr 27 years and is a member of the Association of Health Care Journalists. Her 24th book, “Smiling Through Your Tears: Anticipating Grief,” written with Lois Krahn, MD is available from http://www.amazon.com A five-star review of the book is also posted on Amazon.







Leave a Reply